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Men. In their own words.

What Men Really Think is a new home for men from every country and every walk of life to say what they actually think, how they think, and why. No polish, no politics, no preaching. I'm looking for the first men to write for it.

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Before launch

Why founding writers matter

The first stories set the tone for everything that follows. When the site opens, yours will be among the first a reader ever sees, and the men who come after you will write because of what you wrote.

There's no experience required and no audience to build. Just something true you've been carrying, told the way you'd tell it.

Four ways to write

What you can send

A full story

As long as it needs to be. Your life, a moment that changed you, something you've never said out loud.

100 words

A whole story in a hundred words or fewer. Harder than it sounds, and it often hits harder too.

An answer

Pick a question and answer it: What's the best advice your father never gave you? When did you first feel like a man?

An invention

A product that doesn't exist but should, plus the real version a man can do today. For the monthly Catalog.

21 subjects

Write about anything

Work and CareerBusiness and SuccessMoneySex and IntimacyLove and DatingMarriage, Divorce and BreakupsWomenFatherhood and FamilyFriendship and BrotherhoodMasculinity and IdentityMind and EmotionsBody and HealthPlaytimeRisk, Danger and ServiceGrowing UpPurpose and MeaningSociety and CultureHome and Everyday LifeAging and LegacyRegrets and LessonsOpen Mic

Before you write

The rules are short

  • I won't edit your words
    Your grammar, your spelling, your voice. It runs the way you wrote it, or it doesn't run at all. If something needs to change, I'll tell you why and you decide.
  • Language is fine
    If cursing is how you talk, write it that way. What doesn't belong is language for its own sake, with no story under it.
  • No politics, no religion as a cause
    Your faith or your loss of it can be part of your story. Preaching, or arguing which side is right, is not.
  • Your own story, your own words
    Your life, written by you. No AI, no borrowed stories.
  • Protect people, including yourself
    Don't name or identify a private person. And leave out anything that could identify you.
  • Hard subjects are welcome
    If your story is about suicide, self-harm or wanting to die, I want to read it. Just leave out how.

How to send it

Got something to say? Write it real.

Email your story

write@whatmenreallythink.com

Put these in the email:

  1. Your pen name, the name readers will see
  2. Your country and age range
  3. Your occupation, if you want to share it
  4. Which subject it fits, and which of the four ways it is
  5. Your story, pasted right into the email

Paste your story into the email rather than attaching a file. Attached documents can carry hidden details, like your real name, that you'd want kept private. You must be 18 or older. Every story is read by a person, and you'll hear back from me whatever the decision.

If you're struggling right now, you don't have to carry it alone.

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